Nobody’s perfect. Everybody knows that. Even a movie titled with it. Nobody’s perfect is more than just a maxim. It’s the truth and nothing can be more true than that.

But if you see men’s magazines, TV commercials or popular men’s websites, you probably think that men only attracted to women who are pretty, have great body and accommodating. That makes you (and many other women out there) feel somewhat inferior and hopeless.

But that’s not true. Women perfection is highly overrated in media. Men don’t need a flawless woman to be attracted to. In fact, a too good to be true woman can scare some of them!

What Matters Most to Men

No, you don’t have to be perfect to attract men. But surely there are some traits that you have to consider to make yourself worth their second look. Here they are:

Your outward appearance.

Men are very visual but they know too that nobody’s perfect. Although you don’t have to be a perfect woman with an extraordinary exquisite look, you have to pay attention to your outward looking. Dress nicely and neatly and use the right makeup. No man wants to be with a sloppy girl!

Be feminine.

Men generally prefer feminine women over the tomboys. It’s not something that should surprise us. In every relationship men and women look for the quality that they lack of so that they can complement each other.

There is no such thing as a perfect man or a perfect woman. Everyone of us is far from perfection: nobody’s perfect.

And the quality that men hopelessly lack of is: femininity. So, if you want men to be more attracted to you, dress up femininely and act like a lady!

Your smile.

Smile! Smile is very important. Your smile can do wonders! It is your smile that can make, even the shyest guy, approach you. Most men need your smile as a sign of acceptance from you before they risk themselves approaching you.

Too many women restrain themselves from smiling because of fear giving men wrong impression… or because simply too shy. But if you want a certain man to approach you & introduce himself to you, then it would be better if you help him using your smile.

Your attitude

Be pleasant and kind. Everybody, men included, wants to be respected and treated kindly. Bitchy acts might make some men approach you more intensively, but usually it’s only because they see you as a challenge that must be conquered. Once they can take you into bed, they’ll leave and look for other challenges.


Just like you, men love to be listened. Maybe he doesn’t talk much, but when he does, listen to what he has to say. Listening also implicitly shows that you respect and appreciate him.

Show interest and appreciation.

Show your interest in what he does or says. And be sensitive to anything that he seems to be proud of. Give your compliment and appreciation if he deserves it, genuinely. Men love it very much if a woman (especially the woman he is attracted to) shows her respect and admiration to him.


Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

1 Comment

  1. While I do occasionally do little things for the purpose of earning male attraction, I overall think that if he doesn’t like me as I am naturally, then it’s probably best that I don’t try and be different to get him like me anyways. Good tips, though! They’re not so far off from one’s inherent self that they’re giving out a false persona, but nice boosters.

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