Save my relationship! This is often something that is hoped for much too late. There are warning signs all along the way that if you pay close attention to, you can avoid. However, you’re probably past that point unfortunately, otherwise you wouldn’t be looking for ways to repair your relationship that’s about to end.

Whatever You Do, Don’t Panic!

It’s really never too late to save a relationship, even if things end. You just have to be smart and know when to back off. Right now, your loved one is probably at the point where they have been debating in their mind whether or not they should try to make things work. They’ve probably already asked their friends and family for advice on the matter as well. That’s why it’s very important that you don’t overdo things all of a sudden. It will make your boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife very suspicious and probably uncomfortable as well. You have to ease back into things. You have to be extremely careful to listen to every word they say. You have to pay attention to their body language.

Basically, you have to act like you did the first time you met. Remember how hard you tried to be the best you could be for them? You have to make them remember the reason they fell in love with you in the first place before it’s too late.

Unfortunately to some people this will be very hard because it means being extremely sensitive and not worrying about what you want so much. You have to learn to think about your significant other. If it means putting some effort into your appearance then you need to work on that as well. Whatever you do, don’t try the pulling away strategy. This is what a lot of people think will work in a situation like this. They think that if they make themselves scarce or start hanging out with other people their significant other will be jealous and want them even more. Sure, it’s possible that this could happen. But it’s a huge risk. If you value your relationship, you won’t take a gamble like this.

How Do I Get My Boyfriend Back

How do I get my boyfriend back? This is something that many hurt girls have asked at least one point in their life. It’s sad too, because most of the time they did nothing wrong. Depending on your age, you have to realize that guys break up with their girlfriend for different reasons. However, what’s different is the fact that they usually never tell you the whole truth. That, and the fact that they don’t tell you when things start to go wrong, whereas girls usually give their man a fair warning.

This is especially hard because your boyfriend might have been bothered by something a long time ago and you won’t ever know about it until later. So what can you do about this? You’re likely hearing about it way too late in the game. Basically, you have to be smart and careful now. You have to really surprise him at this point. Give it a couple days and you’ll start to see a difference when you start to do this.

So what is it? What is the trick you can do to win your ex boyfriend back? It’s actually pretty simple. You have to really focus on your appearance for the time being. Boys are very visual, and if you don’t try your hardest to look nice he won’t ever regret his decision. Think back to the things he said he liked most about you. Maybe he loved your eyes or your legs or your hair. Whatever it was, focus on those things and draw attention to them. It will definitely make him curious and remind him of what he liked about you. You have to be careful though that you don’t act too excited about him showing interest in you. You have to be very cool. You can still smile at him and flirt with him a little (maybe laugh at one joke and hit him on the arm), but also talk to other guys and make yourself not very available to him.

This will work for a number of reasons. Your ex boyfriend will be drawn to the attractive features he like about you by you concentrating on them. He’ll be reminded of the connection you two have when you laugh at a joke and he’ll be reminded of how he liked to impress you when you hit him on the arm. Finally, he’ll be reminded of what a catch you are and how you can have any guy you want when you’re not available and when you talk to other guys. You’ll see him start to come around in no time at all.


Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

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  1. Tash Olivers Reply

    Focusing on your appearance is a promising way to start trying to get your ex-boyfriend back: it’s a win-win situation, because it will serve to remind yourself that you know how to make yourself look your best (which is a talent in itself!), which will give you a psychological boost; it will also, of course, remind your ex-boyfriend just how much he’s missing! In short, you want to make him jealous, so you need to walk a fine line between making yourself seem unavailable and stringing him along to wonder if he has a chance with you.

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