If you want to get the most out of your dildo, you’re going to need to know how to use it to gain maximum pleasure. There is more to using a dildo than just the simple act of penetration. You need to understand how to work your dildo to your benefit. Below, we’ve created a handy beginner’s guide on how to put your dildo to good use. From techniques to positions, you’ll soon unlock the secret to toe-curling dildo-induced orgasms.
Choose The Right Dildo
Before you can use a dildo for maximum pleasure, you’re going to need to choose the right toy for the job. There are many different types of dildos on the market. Here are the most popular.
- Glass: Best for hard stimulation or temperature play.
- Silicone: Flexible and safe for easy penetration.
- Oversized: Give the feeling of stretching or being full.
- Suction cup: Gives the opportunity for you to ride your dildo or try more positions.
- Double-ended: Ideal for double penetration.
- Metal: Best for temperature play or hard stimulation.
- Non-realistic: Ideal for those who want to experiment with roleplay scenarios.
- Rabbit: Clitorial and g-spot stimulation at the same time.
There is no one-size-fits-all dildo, so you may have to play around until you find the dildo that brings you the most pleasure and the best orgasm.
Getting Started with your Dildo: Warm Up the Vagina
One mistake people often make when using a dildo for pleasure is not giving themselves a chance to warm up the vagina. Much like with traditional sex, you’ll get the most pleasure if you take some time to set the mood and engage in some foreplay.
Close the blinds, light some candles, and get ready to have a bit of me-time. The more aroused you are before you begin, the easier it will be for you to achieve a g-spot orgasm. Good ways to warm up the vagina and your sex drive are:
- Using lubes (bonus points for warming or tingling lubes)
- Rubbing your clit
- Reading erotica
- Watching porn
- Touching yourself all over
- Engaging in foreplay with a lover or partner
It can be tempting to skip the warm-up process and dive right in, but this will result in a less intense orgasm. Give yourself a few minutes to get going, and you’ll achieve true maximum pleasure.
Thrusting Techniques For Maximum Pleasure
Once you’ve warmed yourself up, you’ll want to try one (or a few) thrusting techniques to use your dildo to its full potential. You’ll have to spend some time experimenting with your dildo to find the method that is right for you. Hey, that’s even more fun for you along the way!
Shallow Thrusts
In your chosen position, use shallow thrusts to stimulate your G-spot while stimulating your clitoris. Shallow thrusts don’t go deep. You start slow and, over time, build up speed by thrusting in and out of your vagina. This position works best if you’re on your back with your dildo in your primary hand. However, you can also go on all fours and use a suction cup dildo.
The short thrusts from this technique can stimulate your vaginal opening, which gives you double the stimulation.
Deep Thrusts
Deep thrusts feel amazing. This consists of pushing the dildo all the way into your vagina and bringing it out again. For best results, start slowly and let yourself feel the fullness of the dildo inside of you. Eventually, work your way up to a more rapid motion. Deep thrusting stimulates the G-spot and A-spot, which can help you achieve a proper G-spot orgasm. If you really want to give yourself maximum pleasure, play between deep and shallow thrusts.
Milk Your G-Spot
To milk your g-spot with your dildo, simply run the dildo across the top inside of your vagina and thrust just enough that you stimulate your g-spot in short rapid bursts. This is a great way to achieve squirting orgasms. All you have to do is be persistent and keep the same motion going. The G-spot isn’t difficult to find. All you have to do is angle your dildo towards your bladder and apply pressure with each new thrust.
Rotating Head
Another great way to use your dildo for maximum pleasure is by using the rotating head technique. Begin by inserting the dildo like usual at the point of your g-spot. Once there, begin twisting the dildo for internal stimulation. Rotating the dildo is a great way to get the pussy aroused and ready to cum. You can also try inserting the dildo and then twisting right at the entrance of the vagina. Thrust it in when you feel ready.
The Best Dildo Positions
In order to really get the most from your dildo, you’ll need to be in the best position for you. After all, even the best thrusting technique won’t matter if you’re in a comfortable position. What are the best dildo positions?
On Your Back
With your legs bent up or in the air, inch forward and push the dildo inside of you while on your back; you can also twist to one side and insert the dildo while on your side, which will make your vagina feel slightly tighter.
On All Fours
If you can secure your dildo to your headboard or a wall, the all-fours position can be a crucial way to find maximum pleasure. It is an easy and guaranteed way to hit your G-spot while also reaching your clitoris for a bit of double stimulation.
Sitting
Whether on a chair, sofa, or bed, sit in an upright position with your legs slightly bent and sit on your dildo. This will help you to experience a genuinely deep-filled sensation. Not only is it easy to reach your g-spot while sitting, but it can be very erotic if your partner likes to watch you masturbate.
Using a Suction Cup
One reason suction cup dildos are ideal is that they allow you to experiment with positions such as standing up doggy style, riding on a chair, shower wall, or floor or against the wall.
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Using a dildo can be an incredibly pleasurable experience, whether you’re exploring solo or enhancing intimacy with a partner. Here are some tips to ensure you get the most out of your dildo play.
Choose the Right Dildo
The first step to maximizing pleasure is selecting a dildo that suits your preferences. Consider the material, size, shape, and texture. Silicone dildos are popular for their body-safe properties and realistic feel. Some people prefer rigid glass or metal dildos for their firmness, while others might enjoy the flexibility of jelly or rubber. The size and shape should match your comfort and desires—start small if you’re a beginner and gradually explore larger sizes as you become more comfortable.
Prepare Yourself
Preparation is crucial for a pleasurable experience. Ensure you’re relaxed and in the mood. Create a comfortable, private space where you feel safe to explore. Use plenty of water-based lubricant to reduce friction and increase comfort. Lubrication is key to avoiding discomfort and enhancing sensations, making the experience much more enjoyable.
Experiment with Different Positions
Varying positions can significantly impact your pleasure. For solo play, lying on your back with your knees bent allows for easy access and control. You can also try standing, sitting, or even squatting to discover what feels best. If using the dildo with a partner, try positions like missionary, doggy style, or spooning to find the most stimulating angles.
Control the Speed and Depth
One of the benefits of using a dildo is having full control over the speed and depth of penetration. Start slow and gentle, gradually increasing the intensity as your arousal builds. Pay attention to your body’s responses and adjust accordingly. Experiment with different rhythms and motions—circular, in-and-out, or even gentle thrusts—to find what brings you the most pleasure.
Focus on the G-spot and Clitoris
For maximum pleasure, target sensitive areas like the G-spot and clitoris. If your dildo has a curved shape, it can help stimulate the G-spot effectively. For clitoral stimulation, use a smaller dildo or combine the dildo with a vibrator. Experiment with different angles and pressures to see what feels best for you.
Take Your Time
Don’t rush the experience. Allow yourself to enjoy each sensation fully. Focus on your breathing, relax your muscles, and let your mind and body connect. Taking your time enhances pleasure and can lead to more intense orgasms.
Clean and Care for Your Dildo
After use, clean your dildo thoroughly with warm water and mild soap or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Proper hygiene ensures that your dildo remains safe and pleasurable to use.
By following these tips, you can explore the full potential of your dildo and enjoy maximum pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. Happy exploring!
Experiment and See What You Like
You’ll need to take some time to experiment with your dildo and find out what you like. Try different types of dildos, various positions, and even thrusting styles. Odds are, you’ll find how to use a dildo for maximum pleasure in no time.
