If you are a single guy and not living under a rock there is probably a chance that you have experimented with online dating. In fact, you have probably heard tons of success stories about guys meeting chicks and going to bed with them on the first date. Is this possible? Yes, you bet that it is possible, in fact, there are a variety of dating sites and apps that were specifically designed for this purpose. Do you have to be a stud and have the body of a professional athlete? Sure, that wouldn’t hurt, but the truth of the matter is no, you don’t need to be all that. You just need a little know-how and confidence. Below, you will find some expertly crafted tips that will help increase your chances of hooking up online.

You Picture Makes The First Impression

Yes, just like any other dating website out there your picture is going to be the first thing that the girl or guy sees. And, with these dating apps and website, you only have a few seconds to make that first impression. This is why you want that first impression to be the very best one possible. Once again this doesn’t mean that you need to be a teen heartthrob with all the dimples in the right places. You just need to choose the best photo that shows off your assets. Do you look better from the left or the right? Do you look better when you smile? Do you have an extremely funny personality? If so, making a slight gesture or funny face can help out.

Place to you good assets and display the confidence that you need to give a good first impression. If you aren’t sure what your best assets, you always have the option of asking someone close to you. Preferably someone of the opposite sex if that if the type of thing you are looking for.

Bulk Up Your Profile

Your profile is what is going to make that ever-lasting second impression. If the individual you are seeking clicks on your picture then they are going to be transported to your profile. If your profile is blank or includes perverse information, you simply aren’t going to succeed. You already know that the person is attracted to your looks, so what’s the point in being dishonest? This is where you want to lay it all on the line. Express everything about yourself without going overboard. Include your likes, dislikes, and hobbies. You can even include a vague description of the type of encounter that you are seeking.

You Must Choose The Right Site Or App

There are without a doubt ton of dating sites and apps on top of tons more dating sites and apps. However, as you learned about there are specific sites were designed for hookups. And, these are the sites that you want to target. You don’t want to waste your time or money on a site like match.com because most people on there are seeking long-term relationships. Instead, you want to take advantage of sites like meet for sex. That being said, you also need to keep in mind that there are tons of these sites available as well. So, you want to make sure that you are doing your due diligence and researching properly. While there might be tons of these sites available not all of them are created equally.

Using The Right Searching Techniques

In the real world, women get to pick and choose whom they want to sleep with. If a man wants to gets laid it really comes down to a numbers game with the probability of getting laid increasing as you improve your looks, lifestyle, social status, and game. With these dating websites and apps that is not really the case. You already have your looks down and these men and women know exactly what you are seeking and obviously, they are seeking the same thing. However, you need to avoid the trap of looking only for attractive men and women and discounting those you don’t find attractive.

The reason for this is because you have just wasted your time. If you simply stop on every third or fourth profile that you find moderately attractive and check out his or her tagline, you have literally wasted precious seconds. What you need to do is focus on getting as many matches as you possibly can. Once the matches and the replies start to roll in then you can start filtering. Just because someone you find unattractive hits you back it doesn’t mean that you have to respond. Or, you can just simply say that you are already booked for the night. This technique will greatly increase your chances because you know the individuals that have responded are already attracted to you and interested.

Get Their Attention And Number

Once you open a line of communication with your potential hook up, you want to immediately get their attention and their number. There is simply no better way to do just that than by telling them right away just how cute or attractive you think they are. If you have done a good job on your profile and picture you will likely also get a flattering response. If you don’t get a response then you might want to say something like don’t you think I’m cute? The next step in the equation is to ask the individual for something. It can be something as simple as a recommendation to a bar or restaurant.

Why do this? Well, once someone has done you a favor there is a good chance they are going to do you another one. And, this is when you can ask for his or her number.

Always Meet At Night And Promptly

Once you got the number, you want to try to set the meet for the night because that is when the mood will be set and your chances of getting laid will be greatly increased. You also want to try to set the meet as quickly as possible because the longer you stall the chances of getting laid decrease exponentially and it might seem like you are gun shy or only semi-interested.


Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

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