How to get a date? Maybe this is the question that most singles have in their head, either men or women. While few “special” men seem very easy to get dates anytime they like with any beautiful girl they find, most others must struggle very hard to get one.

Many of them even suffer a lot of rejections from the girls they dream of. Rejection after rejection, refusal after refusal, maybe with an occasional “okay” once or twice here and there….

Does this sound familiar to you? If yes, then this “how to get a date” guide is for you. Here you will find many tips, advices and articles that will change your romantic life forever.

If you are a guy and are looking for advice on how to get a date, I want to ask you some questions: When you met her (the girl or woman you dream of), did you get too nervous to speak to? Thinking too hard about what to say to her to impress her? Or too afraid to make “mistakes” that might offend her?

If your answer is yes to one or more of the questions then I must tell you that you’d better get rid of that syndrome immediately. It’s not good for your chance to get the woman you want!

Generally, women don’t like men who are needy or don’t have confidence in themselves! But they do attracted to men who show high self-confidence. With a nervous feeling like that, your body language will show the girl that you are a guy with no or very little self-confidence. See? Your gestures and the way you talk can give yourself in!

Mastery of this how to get a date stuff needs proper knowledge and application of this body language art. Believe me, women ten times better in reading gestures and cues than us, men. It’s their natural gift!

Okay, let’s be back to topic. To catch a woman’s attention, you must display your confidence when you approach her. That’s the most important impression you must give. And don’t hesitate too much because your hesitation will, again, give her impression that you don’t have enough confidence in yourself.

So, how can we make ourselves more attractive to girls? By changing our mindset! No, not character, but mindset. We must change our mindset on our relationship with women. Be a dream man that women desire!

Optimistic thinking as well as willingness to change your attitude to the positive one will greatly enhance your chance to attract women. It is the most crucial and fundamental thing.

Most people prefer to be around the optimistic and happy people than around the pessimist/negative ones! If you can have the right attitude and way of thinking, everything else will flow accordingly and this “how to get a date” thing will never be a problem to you anymore.

But remember, adjusting mindset is not a one-night process. You must be willing to train yourself and practice everyday until it becomes natural to you. So I suggest you to read carefully and follow every link in this “how to get a date” guide and practice it. Practice and practice it again to make it part of you.

And in order to be successful in our endeavor with women, we need to learn and understand how women think, what women want, and what women want from men. Understanding women is the key if we want to reach them. Without it, we will be like walking in the dark, not knowing what made us stumbled and fell.

And equip yourself with knowledge on the differences between men and women. Knowledge is power. So, the more you know about this stuff, the better for you!

Those are the most important things we need to master. All other things like how to approach a girl, how to start a conversation, flirting, finding first date ideas etc are just techniques that can be adjusted to our personalities and needs.


Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

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