He’s so sweet and I’m tempted to give in and marry him…
How long have you been together?
2 years. And it’s been amazing! I hope it lasts but who
knows what can happen after we’re married.
It might last for a while but it usually starts going
downhill after your first year of marriage. You’ll have to work hard for that
to not happen. I wouldn’t marry him right now.
Why? Why shouldn’t I marry him now?
You barely know him. You are very young. You have all the
time in the world to do this so why hurry? That piece of paper WILL change
things for the worse. I wouldn’t marry up until I was 26 or even 30. The world
is full of people who married in their early 20s only to divorce a few years
Riana is right. Don’t hurry into this because it’s a
mistake. Live your life. Be happy and spend your time with him but don’t get
married, not yet. Take 10 years to get to know him better and then, if you both
want it, get married.
Thanks. It’s nice to hear from others who have more
experience than me. I think I will tell him it’s just not the right time now. I
don’t want us to lose what we have now.
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