I have been in a relationship on and off again with my now ex boyfriend for 6 years now. I am separated from my ex husband and finding it very difficult to get a divorce from him because I am unemployed and don't have the money to pay for it right now. Me and my ex boyfriend of 6 of six years just had a son in November 2017 and in the state I live in they would not let my ex sign the birth certificate because I am still legally married. My ex is a sweetheart when he is sober, but he never stays sober and when he is drinking he is verbal and physically abusive. My question is what can I do to get over my ex that I have a son with now?