We are together since 6 month ago and he just asked me to
marry him. I was shocked and I told him I need some time to think about it. Now
I don’t know what to do. On one hand, I love him and want to, but isn’t it too
Yes, it’s too soon. I’ve seen plenty of people who were
in love, going for it after a short period of time only to end up divorced and
unhappy. This is just a piece of paper ultimately but it can change things a
lot and don’t even get me started on how hard a divorce can hit you. Why rush
it? Why not just enjoy each other’s company for 2-5 years or more and then, if
everything feels great, do it. Why would you rush it?
Before you say yes or no, move in with him. I’m serious.
Spend at least 1-2 years with him, under the same roof, and see how you fare.
Once you start seeing his daily routines and not-so-pleasant habits (we all
have them) you will realize if you’re ready for a bigger commitment or not.
Tell him that moving in together should be the next logical step and do it.
You’ll see realize if marriage is such a good idea or not.
Definitely too early if you ask me. Are you in a hurry?
Why? Life is so much more than marriage and unfortunately, marriage can (most
of the time) make things a lot worse.
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