I’m in a 9 month relationship and I still feel kind of
awkward in bed. I’m afraid that if I tell her the things I like, she’ll think
I’m crazy and maybe even dump me. Any thoughts?
It’s been 9 months so it’s not like it’s day 2. You need
to speak about what you both like in bed. This is not a one way street. She
probably has things she likes as well. Ask her what you can do to make her feel
better. It might be a bit uncomfortable at first, but do it nonetheless. It
gets easier with each talk you have. And don’t just talk about this once and
stop. Keep talking often and experiment new things.
Start off with a smaller request at first so you don’t
scare her . Make sure she shares something she likes. The more you get to
know her and what she likes, the stronger you’ll be as a couple.
You may be surprised to find out that she wanted to talk
about this for a long time. Women, in general, have a lot more sexual fantasies
than men do. Stop being afraid and just talk to her. Ask her what you should
experiment with and come up with ideas. Even if she isn’t in the mood right
away, have patience and good things will happen soon.
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