Is it wrong to look at other women while in a relationship?


I’m not interested in anyone else but I like to look at other women from time to time. Is this a wrong thing to do? I love her, I guess it’s just something automatic that makes me want to look away. I don’t mean to upset her or make her doubt me. What should I do and how can I explain to her I love her and she has nothing to fear? 


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  • Tom

    I wouldn’t know because my girlfriend doesn’t have a problem with it. I like to watch other women and she likes to watch other men. It doesn’t mean anything at all. We are in love and in a relationship for the past 4 years. I don’t understand why so many women (and men) give so much importance to a simple “lookie”. And let me ask you something: does she look at other men? If yes, how do you feel about it? If no, why not? Let her know she can and you won’t be upset. And if you do get upset then you should also stop looking at other women as well. Always be fair and don’t expect her to do something you’re not willing to do yourself. 

  • Sarah

    I tend to get a bit jealous when he does it, but I do understand it and I’m working on it (trying to calm down about this). Just because I don’t look at other men, doesn’t mean he shouldn’t look at other women. What’s important is that he’s in love with me.  

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