When it is time to go out on a first date, you will want to have some questions ready to ask the other person.

The answers you get to these questions can help you get to know the other person better, which is the whole point of going out with them. Some of these questions are quite deep, which will help form a strong bond with the person you like. If you are going on a first date with someone, you want to do everything you can to find out what kind of person they are right from the start.

1st. Date Questions For Him & For Her

  1. What do you do for a living? This is a pretty basic first date question. You might also want to ask them if they enjoy their work.
  2. What kind of music do you like? The kind of music the person likes will say a lot about them.
  3. What is one thing that really annoys you to no end?
  4. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
  5. What kind of relationship do you have with your parents?
  6. What is one thing you want to do before you die? Everyone has at least one thing on their bucket list.
  7. What does a typical day look like for you? It is important to know what the person’s life is like on a daily basis.
  8. What is your relationship like with your closest friend?
  9. What were you like growing up? Maybe you can bond over some similar childhood memories.
  10. Do you enjoy reading? You might just find that you like reading some of the same kinds of books.
  11. What was your favorite subject in school?
  12. How do you show someone you like them? This is a nice flirty question to ask on a first date.
  13. What was the worst job you have ever had? We have all had jobs we hated, and it can be a good question to bond over.
  14. Do you enjoy cooking? Follow this question up by asking them what they like to make.
  15. What kind of music do you listen to when you are happy?
  16. How do you deal with stress? The way a person deals with stress can say a lot about them.
  17. Have you ever considered starting your own business?
  18. What are the three most important things to you in a relationship?
  19. Have you ever thought about making a sudden career change?
  20. If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be? This question will tell you how they feel about themselves.
  21. What is one thing you cannot live without?
  22. Which TV show do you think was cancelled way too early?
  23. Do you prefer to attend big parties or small intimate gatherings?
  24. What is a holiday tradition that your family has? We all have our traditions, and learning this about the person you are dating will bring you closer to them.
  25. Do you have any siblings? You can follow this question up by asking them what kind of a relationship they have with them.
  26. What hobbies would you take up if money was not an issue at all?
  27. What is one obscure thing that you are really interested in or knowledgeable about?
  28. What is an accomplishment of yours that you are particularly proud of? People love talking about their accomplishments, so this is a good one.
  29. What do you find most challenging in everyday life?
  30. What is your favorite app on your phone? Most people can’t live without their apps, and the one they choose could tell you something about them.
  31. Where do you go when you want to relax and have a good time?
  32. Does the fact that you have never done something make it more or less interesting to you?
  33. What is one silly fear that you have? Discovering what the other person is afraid of will make them vulnerable and help you get closer to them.
  34. Have you ever had a nickname?
  35. What is one strange talent that you have?
  36. What assumptions do people make about you that are completely wrong? There is usually more to people than what meets the eye. This question will help you get to know them on a deeper level.
  37. What is the most fun place you have ever visited?
  38. What is something expensive that you cannot help but spend your money on?
  39. What do you typically like to do over the summer?
  40. What is something that is very important to you in a romantic relationship? If you are interested in dating the person, this question is a very important one to ask.
  41. Who in your life do you look up to the most? The people they look up to will tell you something important about themselves.
  42. How do you handle compliments from others?
  43. What is something annoying people do that you cannot stand? When you ask this question you might find that the answer applies to you.
  44. What is one small decision that ended up having a big impact on your life?
  45. What is something that causes you a lot of anxiety to think about?
  46. How do you know that someone you meet is going to be a good friend?
  47. If you knew you were going to die in a year, how would you spend your time?
  48. What changes have you made to your life in the last three years?
  49. What are some of your biggest goals for the distance future? The person’s goals will give you a better idea as to what they value the most.
  50. When was the last time you cried and why?
  51. What are you most grateful for? The things that people are most grateful for speak volumes about who they are as a person.

Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

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